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Facebook addiction and fake realities


by Desi Tzoneva on 28 January 2010

A few days ago, Mashable reported on a new social aggregator, Google Xistence. The new site offers to 'live your life for you' through randomly generated status updates; picture uploads; and tweets, so you can ‘spend your real life doing more of what you secretly want to do’. Google, however, was not pleased with the prank site and has added it to the official list of phishing sites.

What a pleasure. Living my life and not worrying about updating my life every second for all to see. Thanks Xistence. I read in this morning’s paper that a new addiction has been identified – Facebook addiction. This applies to those who wake up early in the morning and end up being late for work because they were updating profiles; uploading photos; and catching up on the latest gossip. These are people who seem to be willing to put their real lives on hold in favour of an alternative reality. So what is this appeal? Is it that Facebook users feel more comfortable within a space where no immediate response is required; where you can formulate an answer; say something that is funny; or where it’s easier to deal with someone through a machine than on a face-to-face level?

As much as social networking is beneficial, it must be remembered that not only it, but other technological developments are there to enhance our real lives, not take over them. I still mistrust social networking. It doesn’t seem to offer me anything that’s real. Please convince me otherwise if you can. Until then, I’ll hold on to my bit of sanity.




Comments:

com  Lindsey Kin said on 25 February 2010:
A comment made at the Stonewall+ Aggregate 2010 by Strategy Director for Stonewall+, Evan Milton (voted as one of ITWeb’s ‘Who’s Who in the Web2.0 Zoo’, '08), with regards to the FB phenomena: "The presented picture, is not quite what the reality is".
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